Wow talk about someone completely preoccupied with the present. Apparently from the talk with Amber last night we never had a relationship that was more than just friends. We weren't non-exclusive SO's at all. Which is completely wrong because I know we had that kind of relationshiop. She said she doesn't remember setting it up. But we talked a good many times early in the semester. We discussed it and agreed to tell each other if we fooled around with anyone else. In fact I remember her looking at me and saying "you have to tell me if you have sex with anyone else". This was due to the fact that her brother had been lied to and she was paranoid. But now she denies that we had that kind of relationship and wants to just be friends like normal. In other words nothing should change because we weren't in a relationship in the first place. She still says she wants to be my friend and confidant. And I think that I can still do that since that's what I worked so hard to preserve in our relationship to begin with. But I'm definitely not taking any more psychodrama shit from her. And she doesn't get to affect my mood or my relationships with other people anymore either.